Consequences of cheating

I was in the store today picking up a few items when I over heard the Steve Harvey radio show blaring from the speakers. It just so happened that they were reading today's Strawberry letter. As I heard the story I could not believe what I was hearing. A women wanted to know if she would be wrong to sue the women which caused her to contract Herpes, because she was sleeping with the women's husband. WTF??? YOU HAVE SOME NERVE.

To explain her story, she was having an affair for over 20 years with a Deacon who was married. The Deacon's wife knew about the affair the whole time. She goes on to say that she was a "GG" (Good Girl) because she remained faithful to the Deacon sleeping only with him for the entire 20 years. Somewhere throughout this crazy mess, she discovered that the Deacon's wife was cheating on him with a friend of hers and a colleague of her husband.

This women caught an STD, Herpes from her lover, but still continued to see this married man.  As she stated  " I was devoted and extremely faithful to him!" She then called the wife to inform her that she was infected as well, to which the wife retorted, "That's what you get for sleeping with him!"  The mistress later discovered that the wife was the one that infected the husband, not the other way around. NOW, she wants to sue the wife for catching Herpes, because the wife knew she had it, or should she just beat her down. She then had the nerve to sign it "3's a Crowd" So this women writes to Steve Harvey to ask if she was wrong for wanting to sue the wife for contracting a STD,  or should she just beat her down.

This women has got to be the dumbest, no sense of security, Home wrecking Hoe on the planet.  Let me get this straight! You ingratiate your ass into this women's life, sleep with her husband for 20 years and your mad, you want to beat up the legally married wife?  You're lucky she hasn't kicked your damn teeth in! I know people who has gotten beat for less a things.  Where do you get off being mad! What right do you think you have to bitch and complain.. If you had any class, or couth about you, you would have never brought this to light. You should have taken the shame of being a two bit home wrecking hoe to the grave with you and not let the world know of your ignorance and jezabel ways. How the hell can you even fix your lips to say you were faithful to him, how the heck do you remain faithful to someone who is legally committed to someone else? Do you think because you were dumb enough to give up 20 years of your life on a married man, that you were a good girl, REALLY!!!!!, YOU CAN'T REALLY AND TRULY BELIEVE THAT!!!!  Did you ever, ever think about the position you put the wife in? The agony, frustration, hurt and humiliation you put this women through while you were sleeping with her husband... You're right 3 is a crowd and you have been and overbearing, suffocating dark cloud over this women's life for 20 years. WTF??? She should sue you!!!

To the wife of the Deacon, you also got what you deserved as well.  As the story goes. The Deacon was engaged to another women, the best friend of his current wife. He cheated on his fiance' and left her for her friend, the current Mrs. So what goes around comes around.  You slept with your best friend fiance' married him and thought that he was going to be faithful, what the heck were you thinking....  This is a man that you should have stayed away from, from the very beginning. Did you think you were going to change him? Did you think you were so special that he was not going to cheat on you? (Oh he did it to her, but he won't do it to me!) His actions were an indication of the kind of man he was, unfaithful, a liar, a cheat. Is this a man you really wanted to marry and be with? The kind of man you want to father children with? A man with no morals, sense of family, or conviction. Sometimes women don't know what they are getting into when they meet a man, but in your case you knew because he was your best friend fiance and you slept with him and married him.  The truth is, all of you got what you all deserved!!!

It's hard for me to feel sorry for you knowing what you did yourself. In your case you made your bed and lord did you, your husband and someone else sleep in it. How the heck does he have the nerve to call himself a Deacon... This is why so many people are losing their faith in the church....

Michael Baisden stated correctly when he had a show segment titled "PIMPS AND THE PULPIT" God must be seriously rolling over up there asking WTH?